Being accepted is one thing everyone craves for: whether by a clique or colleagues but do we realize sometimes too much validation can be toxic to you as a person? Often, we've have always undermined our weakness saying we have to be accepted as we are but how often do we think of how the "as we are" affects the people we claim to care about? Egocentrism has taken source of the community and now everyone just wants to think of themselves but how often do we sit down and reason more than that? If our grand parents were the same, we probably couldn't be alive today. So imagine your great grandma wanting to be accepted the way she is and not ready to learn how to toil because she wasn't raised toiling- probably your grandparents couldn't come to existence,so are your parents and you.

It saddens me hearing the cliché: "you either accept me for who I am or leave me." As much as you want to belong, the person you are hardening life for has the same rights as you so how about sitting on your ego and balancing both sides? Well, there are things that we can't change no matter how hard we try but how about trying until we can't before yapping the most unfair statement in the planet? For human co-existance to be successful, we all must be ready to make life easier to each other rather than living like wild animals or else we shouldn't find reasons not to be in the jungle like our brothers and sisters.

We all have weaknesses and flaws but validating them and comfortably owning them don't sound rational enough. Yes they are ours but the human nature can always do better. Everyone can change and I just don't find it easy understanding why we don't even try. We should try. If failure results from trying then well and good, now flaws can be accepted to be part of us but being comfortably wrong and owning it arrogantly is uncalled for. Mother nature demands better and so let's be better people in the society by having the powers God granted us instead of degrading back to wild animals. Will you start eating a fellow human because who you are doesn't allow you to work and look for food to eat? Let's reason please....

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      2019

Huh, so I hear men say women are so weird and hard to understand but do we all wonder why bad boys and basic niggas are winning the best ladies? Probably women were not meant to be understood in the first place coz not even us understand ourselves but do we know how basic things become hard when over thinking comes in? Dudes, so here are the basic things that will make every woman love you:

1. Treat her like a jewelHave you ever wondered why the Maasai culture don't register lots of divorce like the other cultures in Kenya? Most if not all Maasai men value their ladies. Every woman wants a man who acknowledges that no matter how stubborn we can be, we still need to be stood up for and protected. Making a woman feel safe in your hands will make her want to be with you forever coz honestly, who doesn't want a place where there's sense of belonging?

2. Be hygienicMost ladies if not all will agree with me that a dirty man is the biggest turn off. Since the male species rate half or less hygienic to women, the best way you could ever win her is by being the clean guy who will make her feel at home. Most women if not all will always fall for that. Being hygienic doesn't basically means doing all girly shit but just basic things like shaving nicely, grooming your face and nails and more importantly brushing properly.  Women are becoming more egocentric and selfish towards their health more than they are towards sexual satisfaction. Make it clean too, not just sweet.

3.Take time to learn her
Ladies will throw a tantrum about niggas asking more about them and asking for their pictures but trust me, we all love that shit depending on how it comes. No human would want to deal with someone who knows nothing about them. Instead of "tell me about you", draw your lanes smart and ask her a specific question like *I guess you are.....* Or "I guess you like....." That will make knowing her not so weird but something you will both enjoy. Remember she might not ask for the same but communication must remain two way, tell her about you as well.

4. Be disciplined
In a world full of people who just want to fuck and leave, be the guy who wants to fuck , build and stay. That will make you disciplined enough to know her desires and fantasies. Where there's satisfaction, there's peace. Learn her enough before you make the between-the-sheets step. Trust me, no lady will go back to her ex or cheat when the d**k is good and her heart at peace.

5. Carry yourself well
You might not be having all the money on earth but dressing well and being the gentleman will give you points. A man is never complete without a woman: if you are farmiliar with this; most men don't buy houses and cars until they meet the women they want to spend the rest of their lives with. Being ambitious and showing potentiality will win her though.

6. Be multifaceted
Not a nigga thing, yup? Every woman's dream is to have the guy who is extremely good and extremely bad. Not achievable? Try being the naughty guy who makes her laugh all the time but where seriousness is needed, be the guy who will be on the front line to support the things she does. Be. a friend, a fan , a teacher and a father to her. Women love that.

We should try....
No lady is of a higher class than you. If she's truly what you want, try harder to be what she wants and watch to see if she will not help you be that.

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@Mimi_Bree254
      2019

We are all familiar to this phrase, ain't we? If you've never had this phrase from your other half, you've either had it from a friend or anyone close, right? The native generation has placed so much priorities and pressure on this technology thing until it's now diminishing our value. Talk about ladies dating dudes who call them using Airtel lines and brand themselves ladies of class. Which class?

I'm not in any way against Airtel network but this idea of giving out free minutes was a wrong decision. Yes the elderly and most financially vulnerable need it but what of these men claiming they love you but can't even invest in communicating to you? I mean, as dudes spend hundreds of thousands traveling to far places just to have a moment with their loved ones, others wait for Airtel free call hours to talk to the people they claim to love, what kind of shit is this? How are you going to convince me that you love me and wants to have a future with me if you are running away from the most little investments I know of?

Bitches, where did the women of value and class go? When I talk of this, I'm referring to women who respect themselves enough to settle where value can be seen...We can't sit down and see niggas who claim to love us degrade us this much...."Weka line ya Airtel nikupigie" really? Last week on my way to the pharmacy I heard a guy complain of being forced in unplanned budget. Guess what the budget was? A piece of Kiss condoms!! As cheap as 40/= ?? Really bitches really? And you're here bragging to us of how classy you are. What class??

A man who can not put in the little investments at the talking stage won't and will never be able to be responsible incase shit ran too fast. Don't ignore the red signs and come to complain of him being irresponsible, irresponsible for who? Move out bitch and get a class.

Ladies, you are all beautiful but what you settle for tells more on how you feel about yourself. Be the queens and not the maidens.
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READER'S DISCRETION:

This article contains dirty, annoying and lots of sexual contexts. Read at your own justification, thanks.

Niggas really amaze me after a break up with immature bragging of "I used her". Nigga, used who? For what? She mourned, you cum so who used the other? Ain't trying to be corny but let's just reason like grown-ups, nine out of the ten times couples bhang, it's always the nigga cumming and the bitch screaming over feelings of being tickled and flows of warm fluids. 

So where's the "using" coming from? Listen, s3x is a two-way thing and both parties lose something: whether sweat, cum, strength or sounds, it's a loss for both. The same happens to sweetness so you bragging for what? Fluids?? The fact that she made you cum and you made her scream don't make none of you superior, y'all silly. 

It really irritates me when I hear a guy say "I still banged though". Banged what? She rode though too and she ain't blurting about it. Why do guys have the tendency of petty self-actualization? I really find it hard digesting that as serious men are busy sweating over goals, some horny "teenager" is somewhere bragging over small things like sex. 

People fuck and move on bruh, why you stuck over a simple pussy? Bragging only shows how good she was and how much of your soul she took so before you start bragging of banging pussies, get a life. Let me ask again, you bragging for what? Fluids, screams, sweats and cum?? 

For a game, you both played safe, kiss her ass goodbye and see you in hell😜🖖

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