"FOR-EXAMPLE" ZONE?!

Men, how are you? I hope y'all fineπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. So today, let's talk about "Besties".... how's life of being a boyfriend with no legal benefits? I'm not referring to the Besties of this era but the Besties who used to be- genuine friends of the opposite sex with hidden mutual interests. Talk about being friends with your crush for so long aiming and eagerly waiting to slide in their heart, or maybe opening up to her only to get answers like "I'm not ready for a relationship now"... Life's shitty, right? Anyway, shit happens....

As ladies, I agree we are so complicated. Eventhough we love personality, failure to satisfy our physical needs seems a mess. Ladies are the only creatures who will love you but still choose to see you love another person. Trust me, this ain't about ego, we are just we- awkward in that manner. Talk about "I want a boyfriend like you but not you,"
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Sad I know but that's a zone we all identify with. Well, I can't defend or explain why that occurs but the zone exists. If you've ever been in a such a situation, you'll feel the pain of being in that awkward zone-the for example zone. So what are the characteristics of Besties in that zone:

1. You have feelings for him but you can't just date him and you don't know why. He's tried a million times, you want but you can't.....sad.

2. He treats you like no nigga ever did or similar to your first love but you just can't. You wish to but naah. Unrealistic,yeah?! Well, not your fault.

3. He's the closest person you ever had and eventhough you are dating, your man can't take his place

4. He's the first person you run to incase you have issues with your man but he can never replace your man

Well, all this scares and irritates but unfortunately, these kind of zones must exist
#Insight
#TheForExampleZone
@Mimi_Bree254
    2019

8 comments:

  1. The point is can't a man just form a pure relationship with a woman, something honest and chaste without expectations of benefits #ichoosewhoiwant, theydontchoosemeπŸ’žπŸ˜‚

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  2. We are taken as conversation pattners,, but sexual relationship no!!..worst level of friendzone.

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  3. A great relationship takes more than attraction — it takes work, and both of you have to be willing to put in the effort. Now, there is a big difference between friendship and relationship. A friend is a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations. Relationships typically tend to habour a lot of pretence. If you want to enjoy your relationship, date your best friend!

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  4. Well I wish I had a "friend" in that zone, because I wouldn't waste a chance on him. Relationships are crappy nowadays, I get lucky to find a male true friend who's not family, God, am letting him inπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  5. If you my bestie I should kill any feel which could be attrating me towards you..because respect will keep our friendship strong..we all need that one person to whom you can go and pour ourselves!! They will always give the best advice because they wanna see you happy.. bt when we let sexual desires govern us we kill this sweet relationship..

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  6. Well said ,it is also advisable for men to define the ship ,is it partbership ,situationship ,bestiship or relationship,,The so called "for exapmle you" is so paining πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯

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