LADIES, EVER WONDERED WHY MOST MEN DON'T TREAT YOU RIGHT? WELL, THEY'RE NOT TO BLAME AND HERE IS THE REASON WHY...

You meet your perfect match. The one who looks like everything you've been praying for : handsome,  fearful,  independent,  self respectful,  hardworking,  God-fearing but he sucks at one thing - he doesn't love you right. Many women tend to blame men for being what they are,  probably he doesn't text first,  make first moves, forgets important dates,  maybe he's not romantic and doesn't know how to treat you,  it's not his fault.... 


It can't be easy for a man who has never been loved to know what love is. His parents never remembered to wish him a happy birthday,  chances are,  he will not remember yours unless you remind him few days to the dee day. If he was raised up in a non pestering environment,  chances are, he will not know how to pester you. It's always said that a man is what his mother made him, right? Well African mothers don't raise up prince's,  they raise up hard men. Someone who will stand the harsh African environment,  they are not brought up by pestering, they do lots of work as they grow to train them and are expected to be perfect. Do you realize how intimidating that is? They are expected to be perfect and in most cases expected to follow the paths of their fathers unlike ladies who are raised up on love and pestering. Do you remember when we were young and someone beats up your brother as you play? Your mother in most cases wouldn't entertain him cry but what of you? Your mom would shout at the top of her voice to threaten whoever beaten you up. Sometimes she would Cain them right? That's why most men and rough while most ladies are extremely soft. 

No man is perfect,  as long as he cares,  has some sense of romance no matter how little it may be,  cares about your well being and is ready to fight for you, stand with him, that man is a king and needs to be crowned. Just remember one rule :cats don't chase dogs-as long as he's still the one chasing you,  don't kill his vibe by too much expectations but instead, slowly teach him how to treat you, make him your perfect king and crown him. 

Men too need to be treated well. They are humans too and breathe the same oxygen. Why assume that they consume petroleum or rather gas? They have problems just like ladies,  the fact that they don't cry out and post it everywhere doesn't guarantee that they are strong,  they are weak too. Be his peace, find him joy,  give him a shoulder to lean on and most importantly,  pray for him. He will turn to what you want him to be if you give him the full support. 

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