STUPID!!

I decided to call this article stupid; not because I'm abusing anyone but because I feel the human race is at times not just stupid but very stupid.....

What happened to courtship, dating, engagement then marriage? The society has lost it's path. Nowadays all the youth wanna do is f3ck, f3ck, f3ck and invest. How do you skip the friendship stage and the stage where you get to learn each other, define your intentions, build and grow in love then move to the investment stage? Stupid Thessalonians, who bewitched you?

Men, who said that you must invest in every Mary, Njeri and Akinyi that comes your way? It really irritated me when men use their money to 'seduce' ladies them end up calling them gold diggers, nigga, gold for who? Again ladies,who said that when you are dating, a man has to uplift your living standards? You strain men, give them expectations and promise them things you can't accomplish then when things fail you call them trash. Whose trash?

Can't we just go back to the old fashioned way of dating? You can't wife a lady you don't know and as well, you can't be a wife to someone you got no idea of. This is why the society is full of bitter, judgemental and heartbroken young people. I've seen discussions going on about who ladies should date- "broke or rich?" and who men should invest in but are these really important? Ladies, men are naturally investors, they invest where there is value so before you fake 'value' , do yourself a favor of blocking the investments . Nothing comes for free, not even the love from your parents. They too expect returns and success from you so what about a stranger you meet in your early adulthood? Stop this idea that for a man to get your love back, he must 'pay' for it. What happens when he runs out of money? Can we for once raise a society of ladies who can provide for themselves and opt for lives they(or their parents) can afford? We can't keep on loosing young people because of a hurry towards a lavish lifestyle that we could take steps to make.

Again dudes, can we just stop trying to impress ladies with money? Love is not money and vice versa. If she demands for too much, know your place and opt out before you start crying of ladies being gold diggers. As much as you are investors, don't be blinded, take your time and invest only in the right time. For us to shape the society, we both need to be straight. Dating and marriage is like cooking and eating. No one eats raw food then gets it cooked in the stomach, take your time!

#Insight
@Mimi_Bree254
      2019