The number one cause of break ups in these romantic relationship today is not cheating as it used to be but friends and family. One thing I don't get to understand is why should you even allow your friends and family to insult someone you claim to love? Listen, I know friends and family are important and they are the people who will be there when you guys break up but why are you even thinking about a break up to begin with? We don't date for break up, we date to marry and make each other better. The moment I see a man validating his acquaintances faults at the expense of his woman , I tend to think different of him. Like why the hell would you tolerate such? This is one person you love and wants to give your all to- your other half. Would you allow someone to disrespect you that much?
I have respect for a man who stands up for his other half and put people in their places. If your friends are not going to support your relationship then there's no reason why you are friends. Family will remain family but people must draw their lines so clear. I don't despise the fact that your other half might be on the wrong side or have weakness but does being wrong really guarantee disrespect? Relationships are a full time responsibility and once you decide to be part, give them your all. Introducing your woman to your world means taking her through and being her shield-through thick and thin. She knows no one there and has no one but you so how about standing up and proving you really need her there? Well, ladies might be wrong and overreacting at times but where there's a force, be her shield and correct her in private.
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@Mimi_Bree254
2019
To me I think the cause for many breakups isnt cheating nor family. It's the world we live in. There's no love since lust has conquered and seems to be winning.See the singes we listen and venerate so much, they glorify Hoeism, prostitution and lust! Youths hence end up shy being loyal hence short term relationships.
ReplyDeleteA relationship involves two souls,that's the core and i think it should not be just men to stand up for theoir women,you ladies have families too and in most cases the lady's family does not respect the man of her choice ...so i think when you are dating or in a relationship its a collaboration for #Respect from other parties.
ReplyDeleteI believe true love exists. As it was from before, true, pure and honest. It is realized when we stop looking for an emergency exit from relationships and build all the way up. A man's natural instinct is to protect a woman. That starts from his mother, down to his wife and sisters.
ReplyDeleteIf he can't portray that
Wait,
Is he even a man?
Or a boy with an increasing trouser size 🤔🤔
Absolutely beautiful and true. Best is to keep things off the radar to friends. Esp bff, galfwie, wifey etc.
ReplyDeleteTrue and open
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