FORMS OF CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND THEIR PUNISHMENTS.


    Cheating is one of the biggest mistakes people do in a relationship. However, cheating is a daily life activity that can't just stop. Some cheat knowingly and others unknowingly.
   Have you ever got a chance to have a deep talk with this hot babe that you always have a crush on? Only to end up saying you are not  in a relationship yet you are? Yes darling, you cheated. Denying your love is the worst mistake you could ever do for someone you love. This includes not introducing him/her to your kith and  kin. Cheating is cheating. If your  lover dare do this, play the silence game against him or her.  
   Flirting is another form of  cheating that people tend to mistake. Do you ever sext with a friend of the opposite sex
just for fun , because you are bored or because bae was busy or online? Come on sweeheart, you cheated. If your bae ever does this, make him offline for three weeks or dump him.
    Do you ever wonder why a guy talks about some bff so much and even spend a lot of time with her and when you enquire why, you get answers like she's my family friend or cousin "? Honey, you are being cheated on, unless she's his mother, don't give a listening ear. Let him stop talking about her and giving her attention. If he refuses all these, do him a good dumping, invite him to your place and make him a good meal, after you eat, tell him to go and date the family friend. Give him a decent send off.
   He put another chic on his dp and when you enquire, he said they  grew up together and have been childhood friends. So what? You got childhood friends too and ain't hurting his feelings because you got them. Delete the "friend's" picture from his phone and make him stay away from her..
      "I just decided to be silent": do you ever get   irritated with such text after a long silence from your bae? Where there's smoke there's fire. Warn him first, he is your boo and ought to give you attention or explain to you his problems. Failure to do that should bear a convincing explanation.It takes only 2.5 minutes to say hi. Someone who can't do that is not worth your time.  If that doesn't come through, don't  investigate. A month silence would do it best.
      He took a pic of you and decided to make it his dp. Sounds romantic and possesive,  right ? What if it came through showing only your bracelet or shoes and with a nice caption? Would it still feel the same? If not, this is a red flag, why should he hide your face when he claims you are his queen? Bitch, you must be one of his favourite concubines. If he truely loves you, let him show you off. A good silence would do this better too.
@ Mimi_Bree254
2017.

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