You probably heard of orgasm. What of MINDGASM? What do the two have in common apart from the term ~gasm? They both involve f3king....
As orgasm f3ks the sexual organs and creates s3xual pleasure, mindgasm f3cks the mind of a man and creates need hence making him fantasize and have tension to make him want you. When someone develops tension, there's always a need to release it in a pleasurable way. This is why every lady needs to know how to mind f**k a man without making him realize you are playing a queen's game.
When the brain doesn't receive accumulation, it creates it's own. Therefore, there's always need to give a man a mindgasm so that he can want you more. So how is this done?
Intentionally give him space after a physical and emotional tease. It equates to turning his mind on: the brain therefore exaggerates perception of you because there's need hence it gives your perception a more glorious aura. This includes tactics like :
8. Long distance relationship
Many people constantly view long distance relationship as a hard task because they constantly have to deal with missing their other half, insecurities, condoning dryspell e. t. c but do you know that most relationships that end up successful start with a long distance? By creating a need for barrier, craving and fantasy, tension is created in a the brain and when that comes along, the lack of desire and satisfaction will make him to want you more.
7. Sending him provocative pics from time to time
Men are curious in nature, they want to find out everything about you . Organize a date three weeks prior and make him wait. In between the waiting, send him provocative pics of what you wanna do with him. This includes romantic pics of people holding hands, kissing e. t. c Don't forget to occasionally send him pics of your cleavage and you in pajamas. It will stimulate his mind in craving for you. Most importantly, don't send him anything nudes, as exciting as it may look, nudes are not ethical, even to your boyfriend. If you feel you want him to see you naked, show him the real physical thing. Atleast by that, you won't be worried about your nudes leaking. Be bright.
6. Create a chat barrier
In the process of skyping or even normal chatting, cut the conversation and provoke his mind by telling him how you gonna have a hot shower and will be back after that. This will make him start imagining of how you'll look naked and that will create a burning desire in his mind. Remember the mind is programmed, it will think how it's directed to. Giving him such kind of a desire will make him long for you hence strengthening your bond.
5. DON'T reveal your intentions
You know what turns a guy off so fast? Realizing that you are easy going. If a guy wants a relationship or even s3x with you, don't tell him that you want him too. Guys value more what they worked hard to get. Let him figure out your intentions himself -allow his brain to jog around. Give him uncertainity but again encourage him. Getting confused? Well, tell him you are not sure about it but again, let your actions play around. Use hot and cold tactic and make him figure out the puzzle.
4. Turn him on then back off
Lol, I swear this is so interesting. Do provocative things that will turn him on them back off quickly then watch him cause. Remember the secret is DON'T reveal your intentions. Don't openly show that you had an intention of turning him on. Instead, play the innocent girl. Show him the types of pleasures you'll provide him: talk about what you like to do then take a step back and show him how his life feel without them. Remember the secret is being smart, don't reveal anything. Insinuate him by your dressing then back off. This will make him appreciate you more and restore his desire to be with you.
3. Be inconsistent
Don't always be there for him. Men take advantage of that and assume you'll always stay even if they abuse you. Be inconsistently consistent. Have his back, and have not. Remember the rule is hot and cold. Creating a confusion for him will make him think of you and chase. You can also reschedule to frustrate him but when you see him work hard to chase, give him enough that he can't refuse. Men are like babies, they get swayed easily. With all these, he'll always be waiting on you.
2. Friend zone him
Note that this doesn't apply to someone you are already dating. If you try this on your date, you'll completely turn him off.
If a guy is hitting on you and you like him back, make him a friend but again invite him to hang out alone with you. Dress to frustrate him but when he makes a move, remind him you are just friends. Don't dress half naked. Get what is his weakness - most men love a bodycon dress that will draw out your figure, try it out and ensure it's not too short and indecent. As much as most men get swayed by indecent dressing, others get turned off by it, don't dress indecently to get attention. Be decently sexy and act as you just wanna be his friend but again you like him. Remember men like chasing, let him chase.
1. Use insinuation to inflict fear
Make him feel like he's not enough. Remember not to overdo this and kill his vibe. Draw boundaries on where to stop. Make him feel like he's not your type by telling him of how a certain celebrity looks hot. Ensure he has nothing in common with the celebrity then sit back and watch him try to impress you. He'll eventually work to get validation and when he does, do him little appreciation by taking pics with him and telling him how cute his dressing, hairstyle e. t. c is. Remember men are like children, impressing them is so easy.
Remember the secret is frustrating him then being his joy. You only appreciate light when you've been in darkness so how about giving him the struggle before success?
Disclaimer :
Not all these tactics will work for all men. Be selective and study him before inflicting any of them. Furthermore, don't use this tactics on someone you don't like. It's not a good thing to damage others. Take care because if you break a man and leave him, karma will come for you.
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@Mimi_Bree254
2018
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