MTAACHANA TU...

We all want happiness, we all admire loving and being loved. Every week especially on Tuesdays I see people posting couples with captions "couple crush " and stuff. But do we really admire them or do they just look beautiful together? 

Well, I get saddened everytime I hear the term "mtaachana tu". Is that all we can wish a happy couple? The society has been so intoxicated with the idea of loosing until no one really wants to appreciate a good thing because it will definitely end.  Fear and the thought of "what if" has taken board and all people do nowadays is to shit on serious things. How are you going to end up happy if you keep thinking of "kuachana" instead of trying? Live in the moment, if it ends then say "it was fun while it lasted" and go your way. How are you going to create your dream family if instead of working for it you live on hating couples that do good and trying to discourage good relationships? Well, love comes and goes but is heartbreak a valid reason for not trying again? How will you appreciate a flower if you fear rain? A good relationship is not found , it's built: you work through the fights, bad communications,  insecurities,  haters e.t.c And if it fails, is it the first one to fail? I mean, relationships fail and people move on... 

The term mtaachana tu 

is mostly used by people who fear success and therefore..... 

Instead of living in fear and hating on good relationships,  try out, of course you must fail but you won't fail forever if you keep trying. Let's stop living in fear and start embracing good relationships 


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