Being accepted is one thing everyone craves for: whether by a clique or colleagues but do we realize sometimes too much validation can be toxic to you as a person? Often, we've have always undermined our weakness saying we have to be accepted as we are but how often do we think of how the "as we are" affects the people we claim to care about? Egocentrism has taken source of the community and now everyone just wants to think of themselves but how often do we sit down and reason more than that? If our grand parents were the same, we probably couldn't be alive today. So imagine your great grandma wanting to be accepted the way she is and not ready to learn how to toil because she wasn't raised toiling- probably your grandparents couldn't come to existence,so are your parents and you.
It saddens me hearing the cliché: "you either accept me for who I am or leave me." As much as you want to belong, the person you are hardening life for has the same rights as you so how about sitting on your ego and balancing both sides? Well, there are things that we can't change no matter how hard we try but how about trying until we can't before yapping the most unfair statement in the planet? For human co-existance to be successful, we all must be ready to make life easier to each other rather than living like wild animals or else we shouldn't find reasons not to be in the jungle like our brothers and sisters.
We all have weaknesses and flaws but validating them and comfortably owning them don't sound rational enough. Yes they are ours but the human nature can always do better. Everyone can change and I just don't find it easy understanding why we don't even try. We should try. If failure results from trying then well and good, now flaws can be accepted to be part of us but being comfortably wrong and owning it arrogantly is uncalled for. Mother nature demands better and so let's be better people in the society by having the powers God granted us instead of degrading back to wild animals. Will you start eating a fellow human because who you are doesn't allow you to work and look for food to eat? Let's reason please....
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@Mimi_Bree254
2019
Finally,this is more than enough.As brief as it is,it gives one a direction from which they can start reasoning.
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Thanks
DeleteYes, being comfortably wrong and owning it is uncomfortably annoying.
ReplyDeleteSimple, clear I like this @Mimi Bree
ReplyDeleteWoow.the point is what we all have to do is to keep on trying.
ReplyDeleteI Like The Ending Point
ReplyDeleteWill you start eating a fellow human
because who you are doesn't allow you to work and
look for food to eat? Let's reason please....
Great Article
If we accept who we are everything flows... I second you Bree..
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