"You demand for so much"
"I don't like girls who ask for so much"
We all agree that we've heard or said these terms atleast once, haven't we? Let's come to think of it, are girls asking for so much or the other gender is just not willing to do what they are supposed to do? Like let's just be honest, should girls go silent when they fail to get the bare minimum from men who claim to love them?
A girl asking for a gift on her birthday is not demanding. She deserves it and no matter how broke you are, you have a whole 365 days to prepare. Save bro, no girl will get mad because you bought her a gift worth 500/= or even less.
A girl asking for a date is not really demanding, you're supposed to. Take her on a date. Even if you agree on splitting bills, a girl deserves dates. Doesn't matter where you're going. Do the minimum, even if it means a house date...
Your girl getting mad because you didn't buy her a flower on Valentine's day is so called for. Like look bro, it's Valentine's, she's your girl. Where else do you want her to get the feeling of appreciation? Flowers are as cheap as from 45/-, get her one bro, it's the bare minimum.
The worst breed of guys are ones who assume they forgot your anniversary so as to not appreciate the far you've come from, tf bro? You forgot a whole anniversary? How? A whole growth process? A whole 365 days of being together? People even break up after 2 days? Come on...
It's time men do the bare minimum without girls asking for it. If you love her, show her. Tell her you love her, gift her, help her do chores, touch her, write notes to her... Impressing a girl is not that hard as y'all make it look like. No girl wants to date someone and feel like she's with her brother. We have brothers for reasons, we may look like cows in their sight, we may fight most of the time but at the end of the day, they appreciate us too, lol😂. Do what you need to do and as a girl too, bring something to the table, don't just demand if you're not giving too. A receiving hand also needs to be a giving hand .
@mimi_bree254
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2021
You forget my birthday ,that's it,
ReplyDeleteMeans you don't remember anything.
Do the most man,
#unapplogetic.
I agree, our gender is so serious about our birthdates
DeleteMen too deserve these.
ReplyDeleteCan all these be a two way traffic??? If a lady deserves a gift on her birthday so is the guy. I think guys find it difficult to do all these to someone who is just there,,, ladies should also make efforts for their partners...
ReplyDeleteGood sentiments, it should be two way
DeleteWe different though ladies deserve more than that.Ask me why and I'll say most of them are kind an xtic hard to have all long
ReplyDeleteI didn't understand the last part...
DeleteI think it all starts with men not fancying dates and days that girls do. A man will say there's no need to do the most on valentine's coz you know he loves you even on other days but the lady wants to be appreciated the most on that day. Gifting shouldn't be an issue between lovers. The issue comes when we demand unreasonably or the guy not wanting to spend on you for personal reasons. This is a whole conversation!
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