DOGS FOR WHO?

The cliché of "all men being dogs" has been a thing for so long and has became quite boring but let's look at it in a different perspective today...

We all enjoy loving and being loved back but don't we understand that all come with lots of endurance and perseverance? The moment you decide you want to date, have it in mind that it's not just about you but about your partner as well. Differences are bound to be there and not all expectations will be met but you have to abide by that. So a campus girl "falls" in love with a fellow campus guy then forgets he's a student like her, starts to use him for her own financial advantage and brands him her ATM, bitches, what are you smoking? I really get aggreavated by ladies calling men "broke" or "dogs"...well, there are few scenarios where I can justify that but calling a man broke because he can't afford what your parents have been defeated to afford for you is absurd. Before you go ahead and start faking lavish lifestyles and being a diva,  make sure you can afford it. As much as some people will try to convince me that it's a man's duty to provide, using him for your advantage ain't rational. Where do you expect an unemployed campus guy to get money to change your lifestyle?Well,even if he's employed, woman, it's a relationship not an employment
Whoever tries to argue that "she gives him pussy" should know her place too. Bitch, he gives you dick too,  does he ask you for money? Well, I don't want to talk about men who ask women for money  but if you really want an in-cum tax then get an employment and stop bothering people's sons. They got things to do too, it's not always about you. The only man entitled to provide to you is a man who is married to  and did  swear before God and a congregation to be a responsible dad to his family, not your boyfriend. And well, providing is not about draining, love is built on two people coming together and working to make life better not a bitch trying to be who she's not because she has a boyfriend, what will happen when he leaves and you are back to your miserable life? I don't advocate for breaking ups but bitches,  can we be a little rational atleast? Drinking a liquor you can't afford and eating in lavish hotels which you can't afford is not living your best life. Grow up and if you still believe anyone dating you should afford you then you are sick. Work hard and afford yourself. He is not broke, you are a retarded!

It really hurts me when a lady gets a good guy and take advantage of that - starts disturbing him and when he fails to reach her expectations you get phrases like "men are dogs". Bitch, dogs for who? So you've been dating a dog before? Wow, that only means you are a bitch too. Grow up ladies,  grow up! Many ladies are just longing for one good man but for you you are there destroying good men then you start making noise for us on social media. Shut up and get a life!

DISCLAIMER:
 I'm not against men taking care of their ladies financially. If he really wants to then let him but the moment you trynna reason like a slut then know you are obsessed. Mark the difference : he's your boyfriend not your father!

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