I WANT A MAN WITH A CAR AND A HOUSE...

If you've never met this statement anywhere then I don't know the planet you live in. Many at times young girls create high standards out of fantasies and the desires to live lives which their parents combined have failed to give them. Often when I hear these phrases, I'm tempted to dig dip into the lives of the lads saying so and nine out of ten times, these are women who know nothing about headwork. Not to fisk on anyone but if your dad at his early sixties don't have a car or owns only one, where do you expect a guy in his early twenties to get one? Let's be realistic sis, you are both in school struggling to make it in life or he's recently graduated and has his first five-digit salary, don't you think that's enough to show he's somewhere? Before we put so much pressure on these innocent dudes, let's put ourselves in their shoes and see how much they handle. Some of them are firstborns struggling to help their parents pay fee for their younger ones, how the hell should they drop all these and buy cars and houses to impress girls who 9/10 times can't even afford their basic needs? Logic ladies, logic...

I'm not against dating those who have made it in life, everyone desires to be there but what's with the stupid mentality of setting standards you can't reach is absurd. Why should a twenty seven year man who is single buy a mansion and a car? The last time I checked, men bought houses because they had families so what if you start with them from zero and see them do so as you grow in love? A man's worth is not measured by what he has but his ambitions and how he builds on them. If you love a man, sit your ass with him, help him grow and settle down then build an empire together.

#Unfiltered
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@Mimi_Bree254
       2019